How does one succeed in life?
13.06.2025 11:21
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
What symptoms did you notice before being diagnosed with cancer?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Do you know of a female masseuse that does door-to-door service in Bangalore?
Making more friends is a goal.
Procrastinates a lot.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Can I fix a fridge leak myself, or should I call a pro?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
What I need from you?
That's it for today.
Why do men cheat on their wives with someone extremely unattractive?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Do not set goals—set systems.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
I dreamt my mother had died and I cried so much in my dream. What does it mean?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Does not procrastinate.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
What were some of the unforgettable incidents from your school life?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
What is the cost of implementing synchronized traffic lights in a mid-sized city?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Ask yourself:
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.